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How to Develop a Strong Sense of Self
How to Develop a Strong Sense of Self
It’s best to develop your sense of self when you’re alone — even if you’re in a relationship, or have lots of family or friends around you, spend some time alone each day to practice knowing yourself.
It’s best to develop your sense of self when you’re alone — even if you’re in a relationship, or have lots of family or friends around you, spend some time alone each day to practice knowing yourself.
·zenhabits.net·
How to Develop a Strong Sense of Self
How to Be a Real Adult With Childhood Trauma
How to Be a Real Adult With Childhood Trauma

A real adult has four characteristics: 1) emotional regulation 2) self-compassion 3) clear boundaries with themselves and others 4) sense of self-worth/feeling good enough

Cultivating these characteristics in yourself takes time and patience. Go slow without the expectation of perfection.

·cptsdfoundation.org·
How to Be a Real Adult With Childhood Trauma
Know Your Partner's Trauma
Know Your Partner's Trauma
Understanding your partner's trauma is not just a suggestion; it's a crucial aspect of any healthy relationship. Understand their story, their struggles, their healing journey. Know the impact it has had on them, both past and present. Understand the work they've put in to overcome it, and the challenges they still face. Recognize their triggers, and learn how to navigate around them with care and sensitivity.
·toddbaratz.substack.com·
Know Your Partner's Trauma
71% of UK men have experienced some form of sexual victimization by a woman
71% of UK men have experienced some form of sexual victimization by a woman
A UK study found 71% of men experienced sexual victimization by women, which was associated with increased mental health symptoms. The research, emphasizing overlooked male victimization and challenging societal myths, was published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.
·psypost.org·
71% of UK men have experienced some form of sexual victimization by a woman
Study leaves little doubt: Depression is linked to high body heat
Study leaves little doubt: Depression is linked to high body heat
There may not be a simple solution, like the suggested sauna or hot tub, but what I think this study shows is that there is very clearly something going on physically with depression. This is not a "it's all in your head" situation, and I hope that perhaps information like this, that show a measured physical symptom tied to depression, gets us to consider depression as something similar to other physical ailments.
·kpbs.org·
Study leaves little doubt: Depression is linked to high body heat
What the Most Common Advice About Grief Gets So Wrong
What the Most Common Advice About Grief Gets So Wrong
I can’t tell you what to do because your grief isn’t my grief and your loss isn’t my loss, and we are two different people with two different experiences of the world, two different relationships with our loved ones, and a million different needs.
·psychologytoday.com·
What the Most Common Advice About Grief Gets So Wrong
How I Misunderstood the Meaning of Rest
How I Misunderstood the Meaning of Rest
In fact, when I think about it, I’m often resting so that, when I’m done, I can immediately go do something else. This doesn’t foster a healthy relationship with rest, and it puts undue pressure on me. My rest needs to be “good” rest, otherwise I won’t be able to do what I want to do. I’m not resting for the sake of it, which can take away the power and benefits of doing it in the first place. In this era of productivity and life-hacking, I’m concerned that rest often gets misappropriated. Why should I be looking to get the most out of resting my body? What’s the point of rushing through a process that restores my cognitive and physical health? What are we doing here?
·mybrainsnotbroken.com·
How I Misunderstood the Meaning of Rest
More than 50,000 Americans died by suicide in 2023 — more than any year on record
More than 50,000 Americans died by suicide in 2023 — more than any year on record
There is a lot to watch from Meet the Press on this topic. The bottom line is whether we care enough to do more. There's a lot of talk about social media and parents, but when half of all people even trying to get help don't get any, we have to asl ourselves how much we care. Does American society care about mental illness or not? Right now, I would argue that it leans much more towards not caring.
·nbcnews.com·
More than 50,000 Americans died by suicide in 2023 — more than any year on record